Cross Ministry
PO Box 1122
Wake Forest, NC 27588

(919) 569-0375
   
Resources Related to Homosexuality and General Sexuality
Straight & Narrow? Compassion and Clarity in the Homosexuality Debate by Thomas Schmidt
Homosexual No More: Practical Strategies for Christians Overcoming Homosexuality by William Consiglio
False Intimacy by Harry Schaumburg
The Crisis of Homosexuality compiled by J. Isamu Yamamoto. This book is a collection of ten chapters from various writers. Topics include sexual addiction, lesbianism, and what the Old and New Testaments say about homosexuality. An excellent resource!
Counseling the Homosexual by Michael Saia
Steps Out of Homosexuality by Frank Worthen. Known by his colleagues as the "Father of Ex-gay ministry", Frank Worthen writes with endless wisdom. Although an unassuming man who easily dismisses his enormous contribution to Christ's Kingdom, my friend has unknowingly encouraged and inspired me to reach for all of God! God bless Frank!
Homosexuality and the Church by Richard F. Lovelace
Questions I'm Most Asked About Homosexuality by Sinclair Rogers. (booklet)
Where Does a Mother Go to Resign? by Barbara Johnson. A true story of how a wife and mother learned to cope with the crippling of her husband, the death of two sons, and the homosexuality of a third son.
Homosexual Partnerships? Why Same-Sex Relationships are not a Christian Option by John Stott (This booklet may be under the title Same-Sex Partnerships? ) Stott gives a thoroughly convincing argument against same-sex relationships.
A Way of Escape: Freedom from Sexual Strongholds by Neil T. Anderson
Sexual Understanding Before Marriage by Herbert J. Miles. Whether coming from a homosexual background or having never dealt with the issue, this book provides valuable help to men and women in preparation for marriage.
The Sexual Christian by Tim Stafford
Sexual Chaos by Tim Stafford
Transformed Into His Image: Hidden Steps on the Journey to Christlikeness by David Kyle Foster
Sexual Healing: God's Plan For The Sanctification Of Our Lives by David Kyle Foster David has written a text and workbook in one. Suitable for support groups, he covers a vast array of sexual issues, including addiction, pornography, and homosexuality. A helpful text for all concerned! Visit Foster's web site at www.MasteringLife.org
Emotional Dependency by Lori Rentzel (booklet). Particularly helpful for women coming out of lesbianism.
Someone I Love is Gay by Bob Davies and Anita Worthen. The first book we recommend when a family member or friend contacts me is this one. The person best suited to help the homosexual struggler is his/her family and friends. You may not talk them out of homosexuality, but you can walk them out of homosexuality. By reading this book, you will better understand how to be a channel of healing to your loved one.
Portraits of Freedom by Bob Davies. Fourteen inspiring testimonies of men and women who have found freedom from homosexuality.
Homosexuality: A New Christian Ethic by Elizabeth Moberly. Many evangelical authors quote from Moberly's book. This text, though heavy at times, is ground breaking.
Setting Love in Order by Mario Bergner. We were deeply moved by Bergner's autobiography as he related his struggle coming out of homosexuality. Vivid, honest, and a great resource for the gay man or the person seeking a better understanding of homosexuality.
Homosexuality and the Politics of Truth by Jeffrey Satinover
Setting the Record Straight: What Research Really Says About the Social Consequences of Homosexuality by Larry Burtoft. Easy to read. Dr. Burtoft is a Social Research Analyst and has served as a pastor for twenty years. Factual, commanding, and informative.
A Strong Delusion: Confronting the "Gay Christian" Movement by Joe Dallas. Everything Dallas writes is worthy of reading.
Homosexuality: Disease or Way of Life? by Edmund Bergler
Coming Out of Homosexuality by Bob Davies and Lori Rentzel
Crisis in Masculinity by Leanne Payne
Beyond Sexual Freedom by Charles W. Socarides
The Broken Image by Leanne Payne
Eros Defiled by John White- His one chapter on homosexuality is worth the price of the book.
Eros Redeemed by John White
Healing the Masculine Soul by Gordon Dalbey. Although not specific to homosexuality, We found this book to be extremely helpful. After all, the need of the gay male is to discover and embrace his masculinity. If you are not serious about overcoming homosexuality, do not read this book. Visit Dalbey's web site at www.abbafather.com
Sons of the Father by Gordon Dalbey
Song Of Hope: Freedom From Homosexuality, A Personal Testimony by Dennis Jernigan Powerful audio tape/booklet set that shares the testimony of recording artist Dennis Jernigan and his freedom from homosexuality. Jernigan is a genuine servant of Christ who has taken his dark past and allowed God to transform it. As in the words of Joseph when his evil brothers feared Joseph might harm them, Jernigan can honestly say, "what you meant for evil, God meant for good for the saving of many lives." Buy his CD's and worship the God with Whom nothing is impossible!
Growth Into Manhood: Resuming the Journey by Alan Medinger
Parents In Pain by John White
The Map : The Map is an exciting new product for teens and young adult strugglers and those who minister to them. The intent of the "The journey" (the curriculum part of the interactive CD Rom) is to engage the struggler in thought provoking questions that can be used in discussions. It also contains an inspiring five minute video clip of testimonies from overcomers. This is a valuable resource from the Portland Fellowship. www.portlandfellowship.com
An Ounce of Prevention by Don Schmierer. The author appropriately begins where the best results are found in prevention.
Out of Egypt by Jeanette Howard
Free Indeed by Barbara Swallow. One married woman's story of freedom from lesbianism.
Unwanted Harvest? by Mona Riley and Brad Sargent. A compelling resource for evangelicals. Riley and Sargent firmly, yet compassionately address the reluctance of the church to evangelize and disciple the homosexual; they make compelling arguments for being proactive versus reactive.
Desires in Conflict by Joe Dallas. Although written directly to the struggler, this book will enlighten family, friends, counselors, and the church.
Intended for Pleasure by Ed Wheat. Wheat provides a biblical view on sexuality as God intends it. A great book for engaged couples.
Reparative Therapy of Male Homosexuality: A New Clinical Approach by Joseph Nicolosi.
Resource Related to Emotional and Mental Health
Research overwhelmingly reveals that a disproportionate percentage of homosexuals suffer from clinical depression and other emotional disorders versus the heterosexual population. The gay man and lesbian who suffer from any of these medical conditions cannot begin to adequately deal with his/her same-sex attractions until these conditions are corrected. Therefore, medical assistance may be needed. Read Rev. Wilkins's article: Homosexuality and Clinical Depression .
Healing for the Soul provides both telephone counseling and teleconferencing – helps that provide both confidentiality and convenience.
Happiness is a Choice by Minrith and Meier. An primary text on depression, panic disorder, and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and how to treat such conditions.
Healing for Damaged Emotions by David Seamands
Healing of Memories by David Seamands
Moodswing: The Third Revolution in Psychiatry by Fieve. Fieve's professional text deals with manic-depressive disorder, also known as bipolar condition.
Overcoming Depression by Demitri Papolos and Janice Papolos
Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness by William Styron. Award-winning author Styron chronicles his own bout with severe depression.
Resources Related to Spiritual Growth
The Search for Significance by Robert McGee
Wild at Heart by John Eldridge; though Eldridge's book is not specific to sexuality, one can not escape his insights into the woundedness of all men.
Fresh Wind Fresh Fire by Jim Cymbala. The pastor of Brooklyn Tabernacle recounts story after story of God's power to transform lives. Read ALL of his books!
Fresh Faith by Jim Cymbala
Fresh Power by Jim Cymbala
Surprised by Joy by C. S. Lewis
The Screwtape Letters by C. S. Lewis. One of Lewis' classics!
Mere Christianity by C. S. Lewis. It's hard to believe such a small book can hold such vast wealth of information and inspiration.
Don't Waste Your Sorrows by Paul E. Billheimer
Basic Christianity by John R. W. Stott
The Life of David Brainerd from Brainerd's diary. A heart-wrenching diary of a great missionary.
The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck. A remarkable book sure to challenge!
Experiencing God by Henry T. Blackaby and Claude V. King. Nothing dispels the darkness of sin and the monotony of life like an experience with God. Blackaby not only points the way, he has trudged the path himself. Both the book and the study course are invaluable.
God Speaks Through Suffering by T. B. Maston. Maston was for many years professor of Christian Ethics at Southwestern Baptist Seminary. This book may be out of print.
Celebration of Discipline by Richard Foster. No book, other than the Bible, has inspired me to walk more closely with Christ as has Foster's book. Every page gleams, every paragraph shouts, and every sentence flourishes with biblical truth.
The Pursuit of God by A.W. Tozer
The Green Letters by Miles Stanford. This small book is replete with principles for cultivating a relationship with God. One of the best I've read!
Knowing God by J. I. Packer. The Apostle Paul wrote, "That I may know Him." Packer has performed a service to those of us who long to know God more intimately.
How to Say "No" to a Stubborn Habit by Erwin Lutzer
The Autobiography of Charles G. Finney condensed and edited by Helen Wessell
The Bondage Breaker by Neil T. Anderson. A necessary book on spiritual warfare.
The Problem of Pain by C. S. Lewis

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